this is so relatable. growing up “ugly” and undesirable, once i was perceived as pretty and desirable i thought that was all i needed. i eventually learned that that wasn’t truly want i wanted out of relationships.
yes! i had the same experience. having grown up ugly made me think that once i was pretty, everything would be fixed and my life would be better, when it fact, it made everything even worse.
genuine curiosity and being able to feel/understand other’s wounds, dark sides or ugliness are something difficult for most of the people. so to say, these are too much for them. i deeply understand what you are saying, but this is your strength and your vivid connection with life. sadly, not everyone is capable of doing this. yet i still have this hope to meet and have in my life some rare people who can feel exactly like this, and that makes them so special for me.
this is so relatable. growing up “ugly” and undesirable, once i was perceived as pretty and desirable i thought that was all i needed. i eventually learned that that wasn’t truly want i wanted out of relationships.
yes! i had the same experience. having grown up ugly made me think that once i was pretty, everything would be fixed and my life would be better, when it fact, it made everything even worse.
Hate that I know this feeling, hate that you know this feeling, but this was beautifully done
genuine curiosity and being able to feel/understand other’s wounds, dark sides or ugliness are something difficult for most of the people. so to say, these are too much for them. i deeply understand what you are saying, but this is your strength and your vivid connection with life. sadly, not everyone is capable of doing this. yet i still have this hope to meet and have in my life some rare people who can feel exactly like this, and that makes them so special for me.
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